We will see about the ego later;
first accept yourself totally.
Let the ego come;
the ego is not such a big problem,
and the bigger it is,
the easier it is burst.
It is like a balloon-it becomes big,
then with just a prick it is gone!
Let the ego be there,
that is allowed,
but accept yourself,
and things will start changing.
In fact total acceptance means
acceptance of the ego too.
Start by accepting.
The world needs a few great egoists too.
We need all kinds of People.